WOMAN WORTHY OF A KING; The Woman I Am Looking For!
It’s amazing to see that this world is wrapped around women, from the creation of the world to this present age. From deciding how we live to multiplying the population of the earth, to making the world pleasurable, and to also make the world of men confusing. Although women are really influential, many of them do not know who they are and the potentials that they have.
I smiled when I was told to write something about women because I love women! Well as a guy, can I do without women?? Anyways, some guys are weird and confused these days and they claim to be ‘gay’. I just cannot imagine a grown up man leaving some soft and pleasurable body to some hard annoying body. Just can’t deal!
Moving on, I will like to share what most guys in my own opinion really want to see in their ideal woman – ideal women guys!! Not side chicks or baby mamas!!
Many guys talk about their interest in a God-fearing lady but really, it’s not about a lady that spends all her day in the church and starves her man quality attention. Men basically want an attractive, fun, morally upright and smart lady. You should note my choice of words, each word covers all that a woman should be.
Attractive: Men find women more attractive when they’re rocking a killer smile. There is nobody that is ugly in our world, it is just in levels, however, when a lady smiles, the beauty is phenomenal. It is a known philosophy that men are more physical than women. Men get attracted to some assets of women which draw their attention to them. Some ladies overdo this because they are aware that it is the only form of attraction for men.
Morally Upright: This is what some guys refer to as God-fearing which actually means that she must have core Christ-like values. For example, an ideal woman should be humble. Do not mix timidity with humility. She should be peaceful with a gentle spirit; always doing good and not evil-minded. A bad personality is fatal and this must be worked upon by a lady. The attribute of self-discipline and self-control is key. Contentious women are like a continual dropping on a rainy day. Angry women are never good company; unpleasant women ruin the peace of a home. Just be the queen you are as a lady with great attributes.
Fun-Like: A fun-like lady is a sociable lady. Many ladies seem not to be fun-like in their aim to be morally upright. I personally see that as hypocritical. My ideal woman should be humorous and should be easily humoured and not too serious, taking every single word personally. Sense of humour is very important when it comes to a woman’s ‘must-have’ characteristics.
Smart and Industrious: This also refers to an intelligent lady. If you read the chapter of the virtuous woman in the Bible, you would notice that it talks more about doing things in the right time and in the right way. From “She seeks wool and flax, and works willingly with her hands;, “She rises also while it is yet night, gives meat to her household, and their tasks to her maidens”, “She considers a field and buys it”; With the fruit of her hands, she plants a vineyard”, “She is a sharp business woman”. It’s not every time you ask your boyfriend, “bring, bring” sometimes – in fact, most times, “give, give”. Intelligence is important. Being an airhead is unattractive and often a deal-breaker. Men want a lady whom they can engage in intelligent conversations with. Being smart is the only sustainable way to a strong relationship. Do not think you can’t be smart, being smart has to do with being informed. Men want a lady with whom they can discuss all kind of topics. This actually is what builds the bond and great friendship in a relationship.
Have you noticed that after some time in a relationship, the relationship becomes boring especially when you are in a long distance relationship? The reason is not lack of love but the lack of communication and what encourages communication is the availability of topics to discuss about.
Simple advice: Ladies, read more and listen more so that you can be informed. No guy, I mean no guy likes a dumb girl…not even a dumb guy.
Yes, so many ladies would say that they all have the above qualities and even more but they are never treated right by guys. I always say this and I will say it here, “Who you are is who you attract”. Bad guys always know the good girls and want to treat them right. However, as a lady, you need to be determined and focused without compromise, if not, that little compromise will be leveraged on by the bad guys.
Women are strong, elegant, powerful and influential. God made it that way. He had to put a woman under a man so as to checkmate how far she can go. Work, build yourself and start exhibiting the ‘queenly’ qualities and attitude you really do have.
Happy is the husband of a virtuous wife, a silent woman is a gift from the Lord. And a well-instructed woman is above worth. Grace upon grace is a modest wife. And there is no price of a chaste woman.
With all these great qualities and many more, a man is blessed and privileged to have you in his life. As no man is perfect, I do not think there is any perfect lady. You should strive to be the perfect lady for yourself and GOD. Do not try to satisfy anybody by killing your happiness. It’s important to find joy and happiness in whatever you do.
So please, be that woman who will make a man and the world happy!